We were
created to exist in relationships together. When I read this from my bible
study devotion this morning, it created in me thoughts to aide me in
daily life. I’ve begun a new avenue in
the industry I work. When beginning new
things, I tend to feel anxious and nervous, due to being outside my comfort
zone. I think I’m getting alittle ahead
of myself here, let me back up.
The belief I
have in myself is growing with each day, with each appointment, with each
challenge, accomplishment, and mistake.
I like it, I fear it, I dislike it, I love it, all at once. This is called an emotional roller coaster ride by the way! :)
Being the
perfectionist that I am, yes I am actually admitting it here, I have high expectations
of my own abilities. Recently, I have
learned and been told that a perfectionist mindset can be both a strength and
weakness for oneself. I am glad I was
told this, the weakness section brings me to the reality that dwelling on something
too long can do more harm, when moving on and learning from it can enhance my
life,/my abilities. I’m glad God brought
that individual into my life to explain and point this out. (mental note, work in progress, won’t be
overnight success in this area)
I’d like to
go back to the relationships area of this post.
I realized in reading the words from “The God of All Comfort” by Donna
Pyle, I have been given the opportunity to create
relationships, in addition to protecting what is most important to people
in my occupation.
Since making
the decision to pursue this opportunity, I knew there was more in it for
me. I knew taking care of people is one
of my strengths. I have always liked to take care of people. What better way than to protect the things
that matter so much to them. I will not
be just be selling insurance or out to make a buck. The seed that was within to
spark this new journey has just grown some more by the way!
Donna Pyle says,
“by definition, comfort is something we
do, while compassion is something we
feel. When they work together, they have the power to transform lives.”
I love
that. Take a moment and read it once
again, you might try it out loud. Don’t just
read the words, feel them!
I want to transform lives. I want to be the person that when they leave my office they think "she seems so compassionate and authentic." Whether they become clients or not, I want to be an extension of many things, but I know compassion is essential in building relationships. The goal is to build relationships.
My
inabilities may be showing currently in my starting appointments, but I know
this. God placed each of these people in
front of me, for some reason. Whether they are Christian or not, I feel blessed by getting to share the knowledge I have with them to help them. I know that they will enhance my life by just being present, whether for the long haul or a short period.
My hope is to
bring them information they need with value, and if a time comes that they need
comfort, I pray I am compassionate.
Be sure to build relationships in your life,
it not only enhances your life, but brings you closer to the One True God.
Thank you for allowing me to grow, to share on our blog, and for the support you have brought to our lives.
Julie
Julie
I love that you are going through this study and at the same time I am a little jealous that you are going through it without me! Oooo, I know, I know, you can lead the group through this one after I have the baby! Yes! Excellent plan, Julie!
ReplyDeleteI can scarcely imagine a time when anyone will walk out of your office feeling anything other than comforted.
Can't wait to hear more about the new job when you have the time to digest all that has come to pass throughout the last couple months.
Heather,
DeleteI'm having alittle trouble fitting it into my schedule but my days do go better when with it. It's a different one for sure, but I like this one especially today.
I love how you are already planning things out! By then hopefully my work has slowed down and I will THINK about it! :)
Thanks for the kind words, they are much needed and appreciated. Thanks for commenting!
Julie