Showing posts with label Oklahoma. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Oklahoma. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

The Same Yet Different

As you can tell from the 10 dates in 2013 post, Milton and I traveled out of town this past weekend.  We decided we wanted to worship on Sunday morning, and we began searching for a church of our denomination.  We found a couple and decided to make our way to Edmund, Oklahoma to worship! 

As I have explained before, Milton was born and raised in our present church and hasn't attended many others to worship.  In my life, I have only attended different churches when I was on a mission trip or participating in a youth group event, other than the one I belonged to at the time.  So this was a somewhat "new" experience for both of us.

I want to note here, that I have come to love it when we are given the opportunity to do something together that neither one of us has any experience with! It makes us depend on one another more, I highly recommend it, and you can read about a special one here! This past Sunday was the same way for us!

I am not comparing the church to ours, but I wanted to give you a "picture" of what our home church and this church are like.  Our country church is a beautiful, simple, wood ceiling (my favorite part in the sanctuary), concrete block walls, and the pews hold about 5 people in each.  The word I would use to describe our sanctuary is it has character.


The one we attended this past Sunday, was a large building with a large congregation, and a school to boot! :) They have 3 traditional services and 1 contemporary, as we parked the car, we were both a little nervous, but knew we wanted to attend.  Excited and nervous at the same time!

We had to wait for the service before the one we would attend to get out, and then we found a cozy seat for 2! Ok, maybe it was really a pew for 15, but we stayed pretty close to one another so to us it was a "seat for 2"!


As I looked around the sanctuary I found things that seemed just lovely to me, very eye catching and meaningful in presentation, and modern looking.  As we reviewed the bulletin to see what their views were on communion, I was happy to see we would be able to take the sacraments on this day.   Thank goodness we sat in the back, this gave us ample opportunity to see how "they did it".  They kneel, where at our home church we do not.  

We were blessed to get to see a new baby become a Child of God by baptism , and it took us back to the day our daughter was baptized.  We were able to sing new songs and songs we had heard before.  We were able to say our usual liturgy and be with alot of people rejoicing in our Father.

It was like being at home, yet in a different place all at once.  There were familiarities, yet small differences.  Gathering to worship the Lord was the main goal of the day.  To be replenished in the faith that we both believe in.  To know that no matter where we are in life, HE is there with us. 

So if you happen to be traveling in the Edmund, Oklahoma area, drop by Holy Trinity Lutheran Church.  They are pretty nice people and I am SURE there will be room for you in the pew! :)

I will be sharing one more post about how this churches evangelism, brought a surprise to me from my husband's actions! Stay tuned!

Thanks for stopping by!
Julie 


Monday, February 4, 2013

10 dates in 2013! Celebrating Milestones!

This year marks a milestone for Milton and I.  We will be married 10 years in April.  To some that may not be a large milestone but to us, it is. It's a journey that we are so glad we have taken together.  It is has been a journey of ups and downs, peaks and valleys, distance and closeness.  In this post, it is my/our own opinion and I write it in hopes that the newly married, or even perhaps the mid-married, or the distance runner's of marriage are inspired.  Honestly, if I post it, it holds me accountable and I want to grow my marriage to be a distance runner! :) 



You might recall in this post that I talked about nourishing marriage.  Well this past weekend, Milton & I did just that.  This weekend was a kind of "beginning of dates" kickoff for us.

10 dates in 2013!

 This trip was planned by Milton himself, which isn't the "norm" for our family!
But know this, IT WAS one of the best times I have had!

Here are a few highlights from the trip!

There was food (OF COURSE)! Which included a really delicious Italian meal at Zios, a great steak at The Cattlemen's Cafe, and
The Melting Pot was a new experience.
Your meal is all fondue!
Dessert was the BEST!



We made a trip to the area known as Stockyard City.  Did alittle shopping, ate lunch at Cattlemen's Cafe, which took me back to memories of my Grandpa Pete, and then we drove around the stockyards.
  
We headed over to the area called Bricktown.  

Most of our time here was spent just walking around, 
taking a boat ride on the man made canal, 
and lucky for us we found a candy store that had our favorite candy.
 Chocolate Gummybears!


We also visited Myriad Botanical Garden.
 It had several beautiful flowers and plants.



Sure, there were lots of other sights we could have filled our time with, but
this weekend was purely about connecting, talking, and enjoying 
the time that was given to us.It was a time to relax, revitalize, 
and throw in some romance by all means! :)

Our commitment to one another will be strengthened this year.
It is a promise we have both made to one another.
Oh sure, there will be struggles, and angry moments, but we believe since we
take the time for one another now, we can get through those when they occur.
And believe me, they will pop up!

One of the best things we did on this weekend was just to talk.
Just connect, visit, and discover new things about one another and our marriage.
Many things have changed in ten years, but one of the most important things, to both of us, is to be a good example to our daughters. 
So if that means taking a weekend or an evening away  to ourselves,
then we will, to replenish!

Milton and I spent our Sunday morning worshiping together in a church 
we had never stepped foot in before.
It was of our denomination.  It was different, yet the same.  
I plan to write a post of what came from this experience soon.  So stay tuned!

Our weekend included a few more things, and I can honestly say
 even the car rides there and back were a wonderful time to bond.

The advice I mentioned in the beginning of my post, plainly put, 
spend time, quality time with your spouse.

(No matter how long or short of a time you have been together.)

Whether its a weekend away, or a stolen 15 minutes before the kids get up,
or a sack lunch of bologna sandwiches in the back 40.
  
Take the time to listen and visit with them.

Cause in the long run, it benefits everyone in the home.

Thanks for stopping by our blog!
Julie & Milton